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16 Things We Learned About Marilyn Monroe From Her Final Interview

"Fame has a special burden, which I might as well state here and now."

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The whole world knows the name Marilyn Monroe. She's a Hollywood legend synonymous with scandal, glamour and tragedy. So it comes as no surprise that in her final interview, the star revealed the truth about her fame, her upbringing and her flaws.

Now before diving into her final chapter, let's first understand her beginning. Born Norma Jeane Mortenson on June 1, 1926, the Los Angeles native lived quite a troubled life from birth. While growing up, Norma bounced around between nearly a dozen different sets of foster parents and orphanages, as her mother was in and out of various asylums. But a rocky childhood didn't stop her from achieving her dreams of being a Hollywood star.

After taking on the stage name Marilyn Monroe, starring in hit films like Some Like it Hot and Gentleman Prefer Blondes, and landing the cover of the first-ever issue of Playboy, the actress achieved A-list status. However, the isolation of fame and the burden of her success led Monroe down a dark path, and her death was deemed "probable suicide" on August 4, 1962 at just 36 years old.

Shortly before her untimely death, Monroe gave a revealing interview to Richard Meryman, which was eventually published in Life Magazine on August 17, 1962. The transcripts of her interview, titled "Last Talk With a Lonely Girl: Marilyn Monroe," reveal Monroe's most intimate thoughts as she reflects during what would become the last interview of her life.

1

She found fame to be bizarre.

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"When you're famous, you kind of run into human nature in a raw kind of way. It stirs up envy, fame does. People you run into feel that, well, who is she who does she think she is, Marilyn Monroe? They feel fame gives them some kind of privilege to walk up to you and say anything to you, you know, of any kind of nature and it won't hurt your feelings."

2

She tried blending in but also didn't mind standing out.

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"Sometimes wearing a scarf and a polo coat and no makeup and with a certain attitude of walking, I go shopping or just look at people living. But then you know, there will be a few teenagers who are kind of sharp and they'll say, "Hey, just a minute. You know who I think that is?" And they'll start tailing me. And I don't mind. I realize some people want to see if you're real." She continued, "To me, it's an honor, and I love them for it."

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3

She learned to cancel out the negative noise when it came to acting.

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"I don't like to say this, but I'm afraid there is a lot of envy in this business. The only thing I can do is stop and think, "I'm alright, but I'm not so sure about them!" For instance, you've read there was some actor that once said that kissing me was like kissing Hitler. Well, I think that's his problem. If I have to do intimate love scenes with somebody who really has these kinds of feelings toward me, then my fantasy can come into play. In other words, out with him, in with my fantasy. He was never there."

4

She had trouble trusting other people.

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"I'll think I have a few wonderful friends and all of a sudden, ooh, here it comes. They do a lot of things. They talk about you to the press, to their friends, tell stories, and you know, it's disappointing. These are the ones you aren't interested in seeing every day of your life. Of course, it does depend on the people, but sometimes I'm invited places to kind of brighten up a dinner table like a musician who'll play the piano after dinner, and I know you're not really invited for yourself. You're just an ornament."

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5

She knew she wanted to be an actress at a very young age.

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"When I was five I think, that's when I started wanting to be an actress. I loved to play. I didn't like the world around me because it was kind of grim, but I loved to play house."

6

Going to the movie theater made her feel less alone.

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"Some of my foster families used to send me to the movies to get me out of the house and there I'd sit all day and way into the night. Up in front, there with the screen so big, a little kid all alone, and I loved it. I loved anything that moved up there and I didn't miss anything that happened and there was no popcorn either."

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7

She didn't feel well-liked by her colleagues.

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"Let's take some actors or directors. Usually, they don't say it to me, they say it to the newspapers because that's a bigger play. You know, if they're only insulting me to my face that doesn't make a big enough play because all I have to say is, "See you around, like never." But if it's in the newspapers, it's coast-to-coast and all around the world. I don't understand why people aren't a little more generous with each other."

8

She credits her fans for all her success.

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"I remember when I got the part in Gentlemen Prefer Blondes. Jane Russell — she was the brunette in it and I was the blonde. She got $200,000 for it, and I got my $500 a week, but that to me was, you know, considerable. She, by the way, was quite wonderful to me. The only thing was I couldn't get a dressing room. Finally, I really got to this kind of level and I said, "Look, after all, I am the blonde, and it is Gentlemen Prefer Blondes!" Because still they always kept saying, "Remember, you're not a star." I said, "Well, whatever I am, I am the blonde!" And I want to say to the people, if I am a star, the people made me a star. No studio, no person, but the people did."

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9

She suffered from imposture syndrome.

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"When [fans] rushed toward me I looked behind me to see who was there and I said, "My heavens!" I was scared to death. I used to get the feeling, and sometimes I still get it, that sometimes I was fooling somebody; I don't know who or what, maybe myself."

10

She always had big Hollywood dreams.

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"When I was older, I used to go to Grauman's Chinese Theatre and try to fit my foot in the prints in the cement there. And I'd say, "Oh, oh, my foot's too big! I guess that's out." I did have a funny feeling later when I finally put my foot down into that wet cement. I sure knew what it really meant to me. Anything's possible, almost."

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11

Happiness wasn't something she was very used to.

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"I was never used to being happy, so that wasn't something I ever took for granted. You see, I was brought up differently from the average American child because the average child is brought up expecting to be happy. That's it: successful, happy, and on time. Yet because of fame, I was able to meet and marry two of the nicest men I'd ever met up to that time."

12

She had her own thoughts on fame and beauty.

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"Fame has a special burden, which I might as well state here and now. I don't mind being burdened with being glamorous and sexual. But what goes with it can be a burden. I feel that beauty and femininity are ageless and can't be contrived, and glamour, although the manufacturers won't like this, cannot be manufactured. Not real glamour; it's based on femininity. I think that sexuality is only attractive when it's natural and spontaneous. This is where a lot of them miss the boat. And then something I'd just like to spout off on. We are all born sexual creatures, thank God, but it's a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift. Art, real art, comes from it, everything."

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13

She was very self-conscious.

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"A struggle with shyness is in every actor more than anyone can imagine. There is a censor inside us that says to what degree do we let go, like a child playing. I guess people think we just go out there, and you know, that's all we do. Just do it. But it's a real struggle. I'm one of the world's most self-conscious people. I really have to struggle."

14

Her creative imagination kept her going.

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"It was the creative part that kept me going, trying to be an actress. I enjoy acting when you really hit it right. And I guess I've always had too much fantasy to be only a housewife."

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15

She was very self-aware of her flaws.

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"You know a lot of people have, oh gee, real quirky problems that they wouldn't dare have anyone know. But one of my problems happens to show: I'm late. I guess people think that why I'm late is some kind of arrogance and I think it is the opposite of arrogance. I also feel that I'm not in this big American rush, you know, you got to go and you got to go fast but for no good reason. The main thing is, I want to be prepared when I get there to give a good performance or whatever to the best of my ability. A lot of people can be there on time and do nothing, which I have seen them do, and you know, all sit around sort of chit chatting and talking trivia about their social life. Gable said about me, "When she's there, she's there. All of her is there! She's there to work."

16

She led a famous life but was ready to move on ...

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"It might be a kind of relief to be finished. You have to start all over again. But I believe you're always as good as your potential. I now live in my work and in a few relationships with the few people I can really count on. Fame will go by, and, so long, I've had you fame. If it goes by, I've always known it was fickle. So at least it's something I experienced, but that's not where I live."

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